|
|
Post by 2affectionate on Jun 16, 2005 22:15:21 GMT -5
ok...i dunno whether to continue a relationship with my boyfriend or end it because he kinda acts suspicious to me. ex. when i call him like between 10 and 11pm sometimes on a school nite we would talk for about 5 min's then his line would click and he'd be like "aye baby let me call u back" I say ok...he has done this more than about 5 times. after he talks to whoever he was talkin to he call me back at like 12 when he kno im good and sleep and wanna talk for about a minute then say "well im bout to go get in the shower an go to bed so imma talk to u tomorrow".......then what the fukk u wake me up for then?? you coulda just talked to whoeva u been talkin to  I didnt say that i thought it but i did confont him about y he always has to call me back....his excuse was "becuz i can talk to u whenever i want to and i be wantin to hurry up and get off the phone with them".....well talk to they azz at a decent hour then....i dunno yall. is it just me trippin or do i have a right to be mad at him for that? its just a bunch of lil stuff he does that drives me crazy...but i kinda think i not LOVE him but LIKE him hard cuz i dont wanna let him go just yet and be lonely around my bday. ok im talkin too much  |
|
|
|
Post by ~*~Dyme Piece~*~ on Jun 16, 2005 22:31:40 GMT -5
gurl i went through somethin like that. if he talkin to someone at that hour ask him "are you talkin to a boy?" if he say yeah then be like what you and a boy gotta talk bout right now. cuz i know a nigga will not get off the phone to talk to another nigga if you get what i mean. if he say its a gurl then be like what you and a female gotta talk about at that hour. cuz i know if i call a nigga at that hour im talkin nasty. gurl you should do like i do if you sleep and you know he aint got nothin important to say, turn that ringer off and stay in dream land. boyz these dayz wanna be big playaz and not realize the good things that they got right there. cuz my man i know he mess around but im still wit him cuz the luv is there. but i know if i catch him in the act, all hell will break loose. but if you think that you are over reactin just let the feelin pass. but if the feelin come back, you need to act on it. i know a lot of people say this but listen to your heart. take one day out and sit in your room. turn all ringers and tvs everything off. and think. think about all the things sbout him that make you smile and think about the reasons you think that he would possible cheat. if you have more happy times than cheatin you might need to stay wit him but if its vise versa, it might be time to let go. and believe me bein loney on your b-day isnt as bad as bein heart broken on your b-day. if you need more help let me know
|
|
|
|
Post by ~*~Dyme Piece~*~ on Jun 16, 2005 22:33:02 GMT -5
i know im young but i do have a lil wisdom on me
|
|
|
|
Post by 2affectionate on Jun 16, 2005 22:40:22 GMT -5
aww that was a good point...thx gurl ""and believe me bein loney on your b-day isnt as bad as bein heart broken on your b-day"" real good point!
|
|
|
|
Post by ~*~Dyme Piece~*~ on Jun 16, 2005 22:42:38 GMT -5
oh your welcome any time i can help
|
|
|
|
Post by ~*~Dyme Piece~*~ on Jun 16, 2005 22:45:13 GMT -5
aww that was a good point...thx gurl ""and believe me bein loney on your b-day isnt as bad as bein heart broken on your b-day"" real good point! you wont really be that lonely cuz you will have your family and friends and you have yo whole life to find that one true dude |
|
|
|
Post by 2affectionate on Jun 16, 2005 22:53:01 GMT -5
yep  |
|
|
|
Post by FizzsGurlyGurl on Jun 17, 2005 1:00:44 GMT -5
awwwwwwwwwww.......so sweet
but this reminds me of my ex and I he was one grade a head of me and we still went to the same school and all but too make along story short he was a cheater but i LOVED him and no matter wat for some dumb ass reason i would take him back and now i understand y i kept takin him back and it was cuz when u love somebody no matter wat they do u gone take em back cuz u love em soo much its hard to let em go, my friends would always say why u still with him and all that but it was cuz i loved him
and to this day i still love him when i read all the notes he wrote me i cry
but he had to move so i havent seen him in bout a year but the thing is he supposed to be comin back and no matter how much i dont want to get hurt again i know feelings gone come back cuz no matter how much he would cheat and i broke up with him he came runnin back to me not the other girls but me
I KNOW YALL PROBALY WONDERIN WAT THE HELL THAT GOT TO DO WITH THAT BUT I JUST HAD TO LET SOME OF IT OUT BUT TRUST ME ITS DEEPER THAN THAT
|
|
|
|
Post by ~*~Dyme Piece~*~ on Jun 17, 2005 13:28:42 GMT -5
gurl i dont mind hearin yo story i like helpin people wit this kind of stuff. to me it seems like he has feelins for you but he dont want to realize it. he thinks that its nothin. and until he figures out the feelins that he has, he gonna keep doin what he does. its gonna hit him hard one day when he least expects it. like my nigga will one day. they know what they are doin is wrong but they say "hell while i can do it i might as well" if you are tired of bein hurt, it might be good if you are friends wit him but wit benefits if you cant give him up all the way. or if you can sacrifice bein wit him like that just be regular friends that just chill together. or you could do like i told 2affectionate and take a day or 2 out and think about your relationship. and think, were you happier when he was here or are you happier now that he moved?
|
|
|
|
Post by FizzsGurlyGurl on Jun 17, 2005 15:25:54 GMT -5
in a way we've tried the friends with benifts thing like we would not be together but lil things would still go down and one reason y i dont want him back is cuz he could be with another girl and me and him have broken up an he still would be kissin all up on me that just tells me that that is wat he does with them otha girls while we was together
and then when he moved he wanted us to stay together and im like if i cant trust u here make makes u think i can trust u with us in two different states
o hell naw lol
|
|
|
|
Post by 2affectionate on Jun 17, 2005 16:20:29 GMT -5
the names nisha tiff lol....heyyy im the one with the problem here.....lol sike naa im playin yall. yall helped me already, thx a bunch!
|
|
|
|
Post by FizzsGurlyGurl on Jun 17, 2005 16:30:01 GMT -5
lol
i alwayz got to jump in some kind of way lol
|
|
|
|
Post by ~*~Dyme Piece~*~ on Jun 17, 2005 18:44:16 GMT -5
my bad let me know if you want me to use your real name. yall know im slow. let him think yall still together but you can get you pimpin on since he dont know how to be faithful you should act like you dont either
|
|
|
|
Post by FizzsGurlyGurl on Jun 17, 2005 19:55:40 GMT -5
oooooooooooooooooooooooooook
|
|
|
|
Post by ~*~Dyme Piece~*~ on Jun 18, 2005 23:53:33 GMT -5
yyyyyyyyyeeeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhh!
|
|
I didnt say that i thought it but i did confont him about y he always has to call me back....his excuse was "becuz i can talk to u whenever i want to and i be wantin to hurry up and get off the phone with them".....well talk to they azz at a decent hour then....i dunno yall. is it just me trippin or do i have a right to be mad at him for that? its just a bunch of lil stuff he does that drives me crazy...but i kinda think i not LOVE him but LIKE him hard cuz i dont wanna let him go just yet and be lonely around my bday.
